The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

Unbreakable: Strategy One - the broken or offender marriage podcast unbreakable Dec 04, 2020

Here's what you have to do to have a chance at reconciliation after a traumatic wound.

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Unbreakable: Wounds vs Betrayal marriage podcast unbreakable Dec 03, 2020

Any type of betrayal can cause emotional distress, but you might experience lingering trauma when someone you depend on to respect your needs and generally help safeguard your well-being violates...

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New series about to start...Unbreakable marriage podcast unbreakable Dec 02, 2020

The thing you want most from your spouse is often what is broken the most! Trust. A new series is about to start, Unbreakable, Three Proven Strategies to Overcome Hurt, Betrayal, and Broken...

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Help! Divorce is too expensive and homicide is illegal marriage podcast questions and conversations Dec 01, 2020

An answer to the question, "Where do you get help when the only reason you are still married is that 1) divorce is too expensive, and 2) homicide is illegal. (No, this is not a prank question. The...

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Do Life Differently: A strategic path toward extraordinary interview podcast Nov 25, 2020

A special interview with Jeff Reeter! Countless books focus on leadership. Numerous podcasts and TedTalks speak about leading others, leading organizations, developing leaders, and so on. But...

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What is the greatest predictor of success? marriage podcast questions and conversations Oct 27, 2020

A fellow learner wants to know, "What is the single best predictor of whether a couple who goes through your program will make it."

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How can I get my wife to love me again? marriage podcast questions and conversations Oct 26, 2020

The problem may be with you trying to get her to love you again.

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Is it always up to one spouse to instigate sex? marriage podcast questions and conversations sexual intimacy Oct 23, 2020

Is it always up to one spouse to instigate sex? Wouldn't it leave the instigator feeling under wanted if they are always having to start the festivities?

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Become Unbreakable Oct 09, 2020

This is the one I've been looking to the most! Actual tears when I discovered it and then created my notes for the show!

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A.R.E. You ready! conflict management marriage podcast primal panic Oct 08, 2020

We've turned the corner and you are ready to turn betrayal into deeper intimacy!

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Let it go and flush conflict management marriage podcast primal panic Oct 07, 2020

We are turning the corner on Primal Panic and focusing in on genuine healing! Now drop whatever you are doing and flush it.

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The Lover: Primal Panic Reaction conflict management marriage podcast primal panic Oct 06, 2020

This is who you want to be if you ever want to overcome the pain of feeling betrayed.

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