The Reluctant Missionary
Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.
- The key strategies to seeking forgiveness are
- Adjust your expectations of her response
- Own the damage (which you’ve already learned about in the show “It starts with you”)
- Be...
- What your wife wants most is to be validated
- “You’re right…”
- Validating someone’s feelings is first accepting someone’s feelings and then acknowledging and...
- It starts with you
- Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
- It’s the fuel that drives the engine
- Stop focusing on everything else
- Look in the mirror, the only...
- Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
These questions should really help you heat things up during your date night!
- What would be the most fun way to get you excited about being intimate with me?
- Fill in the blank...when I _______ you...
- If you’re listening to this show, you might know of what we speak. “That’ll do Donkey...that’ll do.” Shrek
- You’ve blown it, now what?
- Accept the consequences...
This is a special edition of conversation starters that I'm calling...the Superhero Edition! If you can't laugh at some of these, then I just don't know how to help. =]
- What superhero would...
- How you lost her in the first place
- Unresolved anger and conflict
- You were pushing her buttons AND reacting poorly to your buttons being pushed
- The Conflict Dance
- How you break the dance
- Take...
- How you break the dance
Sometimes it is the simple questions that help you learn the most about each other. When you begin discovering what makes each other tick...things heat up!
- What do you want to do when you...
Today we start a special series on The Hero’s Guide To Winning Back Your Wife. It’s based on a new book I’m writing with my brother-in-law Roger Gibson for men who want to build...
Get that spark back with these questions for your next date night!
- What was the very first thing you thought about me?
- What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?
- What...
You really can have a fun date night when you have creative questions to ask each other! Whether you're going out to dinner or simply stealing a moment for yourselves after getting the kids...
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