The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

Married on Purpose - The Game Plan marriage married on purpose smalley marriage radio Aug 21, 2018

  1. Without a clear and defined purpose (which we will from now on refer to as your DREAM) how can you expect your marriage to be all it can be? If you do not know where you are headed together as a...
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Bright Tomorrows - a story about mental illness and two psychotic breaks interview marriage smalley marriage radio Aug 14, 2018

Tim and Nancy's story should inspire anyone about what it takes to stay committed to each other through "sickness and in health"!

Tim wrote:

Since 1979 I have lived with the consequences of a...

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[re-air] Four things every couple needs to know about sex marriage sexual intimacy Jul 24, 2018

Today we are talking about sex, possibly one of the greatest gifts outside of eternal life God ever gave humankind! To help us with this conversation, Dave Willis of strongermarriages.com, is...

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Tonight: Top 10 ways to hack your husband's sex drive marriage sexual intimacy tonight Jul 02, 2018

  1. Initiate don’t hesitate… “So slide over here; And give me a moment; Your moves are so raw; I've got to let you know; I've got to let you know; You're one of my...

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How to survive the drive conflict resolution marriage Jun 25, 2018

How to survive the drive!

  1. Keep it positive
    1. Give each other the benefit of the doubt
    2. Are you really supposed to blow everything off?
      1. No, you can’t really, but before you say anything
        1. Ask...
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Tonight - Top 10 ways guaranteed to turn your wife on marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 29, 2018

  • This is actually not that difficult! It begins and ends with placing high value and honoring your wife.  Make her #1 and sex is an outpouring of how much she feels loved!
  • Be a great dad!...
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Tonight: oral sex, toys and so much more marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 21, 2018

  1. What kind of boundaries does the bible give around sex and marriage?
    1. Be honoring, kind, serving, patient….loving!
    2. That’s it!
    3. Leviticus 18:6-23
      1. 6 “‘No one is to...
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New series Tonight: Why married sex is the best sex marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 08, 2018

Married sex is the best sex

  1. Why do a series of shows on sex? Married sex is the best sex!
    1. Because it seems as though this is the topic of conversation you, the listener is most interested in.
    2. ...
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Amy Smalley on Negative Beliefs for LifeTODAY marriage Apr 27, 2018

Amy identifies a common problem in relationships and provides a practical way to solve it with James and Betty Robison.

Watch the full episode on May 8, 2018. To watch the entire program,...

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Relationship advice from Smeagol, Chewbacca, and more (and I guess Jonathan Decker too) marriage Apr 24, 2018

Jonathan Decker is the clinical director of Your Family Expert. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, husband, and father of five. Jonathan earned a masters degree in family therapy from...

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Your Story Matters Amanda Voigt - Infertility marriage parenting your story matters Apr 17, 2018

"Though paved with pain and heartache, the seasons I struggled the most have also become the seasons I cherish the most. For in those seasons, I found myself at the feet of a good, good Father,...

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Four things every couple needs to know about sex marriage sexual intimacy Apr 03, 2018

Today we are talking about sex, possibly one of the greatest gifts outside of eternal life God ever gave humankind! To help us with this conversation, Dave Willis of strongermarriages.com, is...

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