How do I stay with a miserable spouse?
Dec 14, 2020
How do I stay with someone when they:
- Consistently shift blame
- Take no personal responsibility
- Blame their behaviors on their childhood
- Gaslight most conversations that are emotional
- Can’t validate my feelings
- Makes mountains out of molehills and molehills out of mountains.
- Doesn’t follow through
Here's what you do:
- Catch and release
- Stop focusing on what’s broken
- The real issue is your dependence on him to make you happy